5 Reasons So Many Christian Women Keep This Small Bottle Beside Their Bible

It isn't a charm. It isn't a wellness oil. It's what Jacob did the morning after a night he couldn't feel God, and almost nobody has noticed it.

Emily Bennett
By Emily BennettLast Updated May 23, 2026
Anointing oil held over an open Bible at Genesis

If you still believe in God but haven't felt Him close in a long time, you're not alone. You're not the only one praying and feeling like you're talking to the ceiling.

Many faithful women describe the same thing. They still read. They still pray. They still show up on Sunday. They just can't feel Him anymore. And quietly, they start to wonder if it's them.

Here are five reasons so many of them now keep a small bottle of Rala Frankincense & Myrrh Anointing Oil right next to their Bible.

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It's what Jacob did after the night he couldn't feel God.

Golden oil poured on an ancient standing stone

Genesis 28. Jacob is running for his life. Alone. He lies down in the desert with a rock for a pillow. And that night, God meets him and says, "I am with thee... I will not leave thee."

When Jacob wakes up, he says one of the most honest sentences in the Bible.

"Surely the LORD is in this place; and I knew it not."Genesis 28:16

And I knew it not. God was right there, and Jacob didn't feel a thing.

So what did he do? He didn't wait for a feeling. The next morning, he took the stone he'd slept on and "poured oil upon the top of it" (Genesis 28:18). He marked the place where God was, even though he hadn't felt Him.

Twenty years later, God spoke to Jacob again, and introduced Himself like this:

"I am the God of Bethel, where thou anointedst the pillar."Genesis 31:13

That's the very first time the word "anoint" appears in the Bible. And God is the one who says it. He remembered the place a lonely man poured oil.

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It's for the nights you feel nothing.

Most of us were taught, without anyone saying it out loud, that if we can't feel God, something must be wrong. With Him. Or with us.

So we wait. We pray and wait to feel Him. When the feeling doesn't come, we decide we're the problem.

But Jacob never felt it either. He told himself what was true, and he marked it.

That's how women use Rala. Not to make a feeling happen. To stop waiting for one.

One drop. Then the truth, out loud, before you feel anything at all: "Surely the LORD is in this place." Then you pray, whatever you feel or don't.

It takes less than a minute. It works at 3 a.m. in the dark. It works on your foggiest morning, when you can't hold a single verse in your head.

And over time, something simple happens. The warm smell of frankincense starts to mean one thing to you. He's here.

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Blessing scent

"A little goes a long way! The scent reminds me of being in church when the priest walks around with incense. It's such a familiar and comforting smell. I like using a little during my morning prayers..."

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It's made from the oils God's people actually used, not "fragrance oil" with a cross on the label.

Frankincense, myrrh and olive oil blend

A lot of "anointing oils" are just scented oil with a Bible verse printed on the bottle. Some have no scent at all. Some smell like a perfume counter, or worse.

Every ingredient in Rala comes straight from Scripture:

FRANKINCENSE. The incense of prayer in God's house, burned every morning and every evening (Exodus 30:7–8). "Let my prayer be set forth before thee as incense." Psalm 141:2.

MYRRH. One of the three gifts the wise men carried to Jesus (Matthew 2:11), and carried to His burial by Nicodemus, "which at the first came to Jesus by night" (John 19:39).

OLIVE OIL. The oil God's people anointed with. "Thou anointest my head with oil." Psalm 23:5.

Frankincense and myrrh from East Africa, from trees tapped by hand for thousands of years. Blended with blessed virgin olive oil from Jerusalem. Every bottle is made to order, in small batches.

It isn't the holy oil Moses made in Exodus 30. That recipe belonged to the tabernacle, and Scripture says not to copy it. It's a humbler oil, for your own prayer.

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Real frankincense & myrrh✓Often "fragrance"
Says where it comes from✓Rarely
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"Absolutely love this! The scent takes me right back to my childhood, going to Sunday Mass at St. Louis Cathedral in New Orleans. Such a beautiful, comforting smell that brings back so many memories."

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It's biblical. Not superstition, and not New Age.

A woman in Bible times anointing her own forehead at sunrise

Some women hesitate. "Isn't that a little Catholic?" "A little Pentecostal?" "Isn't anointing just for the elders?"

Here's what Scripture actually shows.

Jacob anointed a stone in the desert nearly four thousand years ago, long before there was any church to argue about it.

When the elders anoint the sick (James 5:14), that's one kind of anointing, and it belongs to them. Using oil in your own quiet prayer is something different. In Bible times, ordinary people put oil on their own heads all the time. Jesus mentions it as naturally as washing your face (Matthew 6:17).

And the oil has no power of its own. It doesn't make God come closer. He was already there. It simply marks that He is.

Think of a wedding ring. The ring doesn't make you married. The vow did. The ring marks it.

That's all this is. A mark of what's already true.

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It's small, private, and it lasts.

Rala anointing oil wrapped as a Christmas gift

Rala comes in a small 9 ml bottle. One drop is plenty, so one bottle lasts a long time.

It fits on a nightstand, beside your Bible, or in your purse for the hard moments in the middle of the day: the parking lot before a doctor's appointment, the car before church, the minute after a phone call you didn't want.

Nobody has to know. Not your church. Not your friends. It's between you and God.

And it arrives boxed, ready to give. A lot of women buy a second bottle for a sister, a friend in a hard season, or the person in their life who always says, "I don't need anything."

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A little really does go a long way!

"The bottle may be small, but don't let that put you off. You only need the tiniest amount. I've been using it regularly, and there's still plenty left. The scent is beautiful and lasts a long time."

Elaine W. · Verified buyer

How to use it: The Bethel Prayer

A drop of anointing oil over an open Bible
  1. Put one drop on your fingertip and touch it to your forehead, or your wrist.
  2. Breathe in slowly. Don't try to feel anything.
  3. Say Jacob's words out loud: "Surely the LORD is in this place."
  4. Then pray. Whatever you feel, or don't.

Less than a minute. Every night. Or any time the silence gets loud.

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"Now I understand why Frankincense & Myrrh have been treasured for centuries. There's something so peaceful and comforting about the scent. It's warm, beautiful, and unlike anything else I've tried. Just a little goes a long way! I love dabbing a small amount on my wrists, and the fragrance lingers for hours."

Linda P. · Verified buyer
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One of my favorite scents

"This is my second bottle, and I still love the fragrance. It's rich and beautiful, and the packaging was really nice too. Everything arrived well sealed."

Carol O. · Verified buyer
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Understand exactly what this is. It is not a replacement for your Bible, your church, or your doctor. It is not a charm or a treatment. The oil has no power of its own. It's a small way to do what Jacob did: stop waiting to feel God, and mark the place where He already is.

Tonight, read Genesis 28:10–22. It takes four minutes. Then read Genesis 31:13, and see the first time the Bible ever uses the word "anoint."

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